Sex
Guide for Men
A complete sex guide
Male and female are incomplete
without each other. Their lives become really meaningful
only when they reach the stage of complete mental and
physical harmony. Nature has created man and woman for
each other and sex has got a vital role to bring them as
close as possible. If the sexual life of married couple
is fully satisfactory and blissful, only then they can
remain mentally and physically healthy, otherwise a gap
of unhappiness and frustration starts developing between
them which is a curse of modern society. Ignorance of
sexual behaviour can be a cause for this situation.
These days it is our ambition to give best possible
education to our children so that they achieve the
highest goal in their lives. We tell them about every
part of their bodies except the sexual organs. Why so?
Simply because the society considers it bad? Perhaps
they are not aware of the fact that children have
natural curiosity about sex. When their queries
regarding sex are not answered properly by parents, they
revert to their equally ignorant friends, who try to
satisfy their curiosity by wrong notions and distorted
facts in the tender brains of the children. Therefore it
is a moral duty of the parents to impart all necessary
knowledge and information to their growing children
about sex and its importance in life. This only can save
them from wrong notions and disastrous results.
Youth
When a boy crosses the childhood
and enters into youth, he gets lots of imaginary ideas.
This is the most delicate period of his life. Every part
of his body blooms. At this age if he controls himself
and his passion, he flourishes like a flower and his
personality shines. He tries to climb higher and higher
and he is successful in his life. But I feel sorry to
note that many of the youth adopt wrong ways. It may be
due to bad company they are keeping or for want of
necessary sexual knowledge. Then indulge in some
unnatural means to satisfy their sexual urge and ruin
the lives. At that time they are not aware of the fact
of life but they realize their mistakes when they get
married as they unable to perform well in sexual act and
unable to satisfy their wives. They repent for what they
did in the past, because they cannot fully enjoy the
charm of happy married life. They felt a condition of
dried up semen, which is the most valuable treasure of
life and was wasted by them just for nothing.
Impotency
If a person cannot fully satisfy
his wife in the sexual act he is called impotent and the
disorder is called as Impotency. It is of many kinds.
The person loses his retention power in sexual play, one
gets discharged without satisfying the women and she
does not reach climax and in the end the penis loses its
capacity of erection. These are few sings of Impotency.
The main cause of impotency is excess of masturbation,
secondly excess of inter course. At this stage the
patient has a desire for inter course, but he is
helpless because his penis does not erect enough, in
other words it can be said that the penis becomes like a
paralyzed part of the body. Some how or other he
achieves some erection in the penis but he discharges
before intercourse. This disease ruins the happy married
life. The Patient feels disappointed and loses his
confidence, he sees gloom and darkness around him and
very often he thinks of committing suicide. Impotency
not only affects the man; one can easily imagine the
mental condition of the women whose husband is impotent.
She becomes very much disappointed and frustrated. Not
only the satisfaction of the sexual desire, but the
desire of having a child which is more important to a
woman. To fulfill this desire she may take the help of
some other person by which a heaven like home turns into
hell.
Venereal Diseases
There should be a complete and
vigilant checking for the venereal disease. It may exist
in any of the partners or in both of them. It is a
disease, which generally is transmitted by the affected
person to the another who does intercourse with the
former. Generally prostitutes pass on this disease to
the man concerned. And from him it automatically
transferred to the wife. Venereal diseases are very much
harmful. These weaken the sexual potency as well as
affect the process of intercourse. Immediately after the
symptoms are observed the treatment should be taken from
a competent physician. The blood examination is very
necessary after the treatment is completed.
Changes in blood due to VD
Those who suffer from Gonorrhea or
syphilis and have not taken pains to treat themselves
adequately must be prepared to experience all forms of
obstructions not only in the treatment of disease in the
general but also in the maintaining good health.
According to the medical
authorities venereal poison remains active for several
year in the body and therefore person who might have
contracted it means preserves it in the process of
purification for a number of years even though a
systematic medical treatment may had been undergone in
earlier years. The patients should not have a sense of
false security and assume that because they do not see
any particular sign of these diseases, they are
assuredly sound. We do not wish to frighten people, but
it is a grim fact.
Syphilis
This is one of the most dangerous
diseases and is the result of having intercourse with
the prostitute and girl of bad character. The main
symptom of this disease is that after a few intercourses
with a prostitute a small boil appears on the penis and
very soon it takes the shape of a wound. At the first
wound is very minor and if one is careless or delays the
treatment, it will have the effect on the coming
generations. In the first stage some boils come out on
his organ. In the second stage some black spots appear
on the body and copper coloured boils come out which
take the shape of wounds later on. In the third stage
the effects of syphilis reaches bones and develop into
wounds such as lepers have. If the germs of syphilis
reach brain, the patient may suffer from paralysis and
at last he falls into the clutches of death. Therefore
this disease should be immediately cared for and at the
very outcome of the symptoms; one should rush for his
treatment.
Gonorrhea
This disease also develops from
having intercourse with the women of bad character.
After some days after intercourse one feels burning
sensation at the time of urination. This burning
sensation and pain grow so much that the patient
literally cries with pain and hesitates to urinate.
After some days pus starts coming out from the penis,
sometimes blood may also appear with the pus. When
penis, this disease becomes chronic, the irritation
reduces. But pus continues to come out. If this pus some
now touches the eyes, there are all possibilities of
getting blind. If one notice and symptoms of this
disease he must immediately consult a good Hakeem and
get complete treatment.
Important Instruction to youth
1.Always avoid bad company.
Do not read vulgar and obscene literature and safe guard
yourself from bad talks. Always try to preserve your
semen, the gem of life.
2.Do not be afraid of night
discharges. If is happens once or twice a month, it is a
natural course, but if night discharges happen in
frequently, one must consult some qualified and
experienced physician.
3.Marriage is a pious
co-relation and one should abide by every rule of
marriage. Do not treat your wife as if she was only
meant for sexual pleasure, but always given full respect
to her. Do not have intercourse when she is in her
menses periods.
4.Always avoid the company
of prostitutes. If you go to them, you will ruin your
wealth, health and youth and you may suffer from many
dangerous diseases. 5. Do not have intercourse
immediately after meals but it should be done 2 to 3
hours later.
5.Always try to avoid too
much spicy food, wine tobacco and excess of tea etc.
6.Have your bath daily and
don't forget to clean your male organ (Penis) with
sufficient water because some white colored substance
(magmas) collects in the male organ that can develop
infections.
7.Always go for urination
before going to bed.
8.Get yourself thoroughly
examined by an experienced and qualified medical
practitioner before marriage and act upon his advice.
9.If you suffer from any
contagious disease, you should immediately consult some
qualified and experienced physician.
10.Masturbation starts from
bad company, therefore always avoid bad company and try
to control this bad habit with a firm determination.
Sex & Marriage
Knowledge of sex is very important,
at least for post marital life because at times, lack of
knowledge about sex ruins the, marital life of couple.
It has been noticed that man have too much of
misconception about sex. They fear weather they will
able to satisfy their wife during intercourse or not.
This feeling develops generally due to 4 factors: 1.
When the husband is physically weaker than his wife is.
2. When the wife is more beautiful than she is husband
3.When the husband starts thinking that his organ has
become weaker because of masturbation, homosexual
intercourse or due to press-push method of intercourse
that he had adopted earlier.
Now lets us deal the problem
individually. In case first, when the husband is
physically inferior to his wife, the couple is not
satisfied during sex. Although they are physically
healthy but psychologically the are defeated. Actually,
enjoyment in the intercourse can be divided into 2
parts. First being the pleasure in the excitement which
is generally called as foreplay and the second being the
actual performance of intercourse unto the point of
climax. The pleasure in the first part is fully
dependent on the mental concentration towards the sexual
thought and activities, appearance of the body of the
both husband and wife. For a brief period after
marriage, the physical appearance matters but as life
proceeds, this factor becomes meaningless. In the second
case when the wife is more beautiful than the husband,
then an inferiority complex grips the husband and he
does not feel comfortable at the thought of intercourse
and does not find full strength in the organ at the time
of intercourse. Even the wife gets irritated but hardly
understands the problem. But if the wife is matured
enough, she can easily trace out the root cause of the
problem and sort it out. In most of the cases, the
female reaches the climax later than man does. There are
some causes behind it. One of them is that the
productive organ of a man is outside, while in case of
women, it is inside. In case of man, it is touched prior
to the women, so the pleasure for the man begins, prior
to the women, and hence, even being equally strong in
sex, man discharge earlier than the women. One more
factors matter. Suppose a man is fully excited when he
touches his wife but in many cases, wife at the times of
touch will not be so excited. Hence, there will be a
phase difference in man and his wife. Sometimes a man
think that he is not competent for his wife so far
sexual strength in concerned. But it is only a
misunderstanding because of aforesaid factor. To remove
this misunderstanding, man should try to compensate this
phase of difference in their degree of excitement. Here
is the second way, that is the medical treatment. For
this a man should visit a well-qualified Hakeem. To take
pills, drugs and other things, which shows the immediate
effect is highly dangerous for the youth. He will loose
all potentiality in long run and reach a stage even
after taking drugs, man is helpless to achieve the
required potential.
