Top Sex Tips for Men
Dr
Thomas Stuttaford and Suzi Godson
Dr Thomas Stuttaford
1-Men aren’t
irresistible and not all women are desperate for sex.
Good lovemaking starts long before you reach the
bedroom, so before any sex, have a bath. Everyone
smells: some women like the smell of male sweat, others
don’t, but no one likes the smell of stale sweat.
2-Teeth
are as important as the groin and armpits. Don’t forget
to brush them after your bath. When kissing a girl, or
even sitting close to her, she won’t want to smell your
bad breath or notice salad between your teeth any more
than she’ll want to smell yesterday’s sweat.
3-Avoid a heavy
meal before sex. Oysters and asparagus are assumed to be
aphrodisiacs, but this is only because of visual or
olfactory associations. Be careful with drink. We all
know drinking increases a man’s desire but decreases his
ability, but not everyone realizes it also affects a
woman’s sexual response.
4-Any penile discharge or
sore, however apparently trivial, means that sex is out. Chlamydia
in the male may be almost symptom-free. It may show only as a mild
inflammation of the end of the penis, so that the lips are stuck
together in the morning.
5-Aways
use a condom in the disease of Chlamydia. Regular partner should
still have Chlamydia and blood tests.
6-Don't
rush into sex and focus attention immediately on the genitalia. Take
it slowly. Learn to massage. This can easily shade into great
foreplay, especially if your partner is tired or stressed. Use
plenty of lubrication.
7-Make
certain that your partner knows how attractive you find her by
paying as much attention to kissing her, complimenting her and
generally spoiling her. Don’t neglect the breasts and other
erogenous zones.
8-Both
sexes have off days. Most men occasionally have poor or tardy
erections and even fit, athletic, overenthusiastic men, as well as
the inexperienced and anxious, may suffer premature ejaculation.
Suzi Godson
1-There’s
no substitute for excitement. The range of lubricants on the market
can add slip and slide, but should never be used as a short cut.
2-There’s more to sex than pushing the right button. Men
have discovered that the key to female orgasm is
clitoral stimulation, and many now rub the lamp rather
than poking around inside it. The upside is that women
are climaxing more often but the increase in emphasis on
genital manipulation has made for some very mechanical
sex. Going straight to the erogenous zones is the
equivalent of fast forward. Men who focus on left
breast, right breast, genitals, reduce their partner to
a set of body parts.
3-Though
clitoral orgasm is easy to achieve, most women want to experience
penetrative orgasm. Intercourse is the ultimate connection between
man and woman and the sensation of fullness that it creates is
intensely pleasurable.
4-Women
are slow burners. They take longer to become aroused and get as much
pleasure, if not more, out of tenderness, kissing and cuddling.
Though quickie sex has its place, for women on the whole, the longer
sex takes, the better it feels. If arousal is allowed to build
gradually, it floods the whole body rather than being confined to
the genital area and a delayed orgasm is infinitely more powerful
than an orgasm induced by five minutes of digital manipulation.
5-Sexual
gymnastics are often distracting. Chopping and changing positions
and techniques can make a woman’s sexual excitement plummet.
6-Trusting for
hours without climaxing doesn’t make you a stud muffin. It does make
the vagina numb and sore.
7-Don’t
assume your partner is comfortable in her own skin. A
survey of 3,500 British women, by the bathroom equipment
company SHUC, found that one woman in ten feels so
embarrassed about her body that she turns the lights out
before taking off her clothes. The average woman still
spends a lot of time every day beating herself up about
her weight and looks. Nakedness increases that
vulnerability, so be sensitive to her insecurities and,
if you think that your partner looks great, for God’s
sake tell her.
8-Be
polite. Definitely warn her when you think you are going to come.
With regard to orgasm, always operate a ladies-first policy.
9-Remember to take
your socks off.
Losing Erection During Intercourse -
3 Tips to Fix It
By Bobby Kolfax
Are you losing your erection during
intercourse? I know what you're going through, along
with millions of other men. It's an embarrassing and
humiliating problem that makes us afraid to have sex.
The issue is that it's an endless cycle. You're so
worried about keeping your erection hard that you end up
losing focus along with your wood.
I used to be like that, too, until
I discovered how to finally keep my erection stiff for
as long as I want, all the way until orgasm! A few
tricks that have helped me were:
Relax: This may seem obvious, but many of you may
not be aware of how tense you actually are during
intercourse. Your entire body freezes up and you flex
your genitals. This restricts blood flow to the penis
and numbs the sensation of sex. Try to make your body
limp, specifically your lower body.
Concentrate: Focus your entire mind on how good
it feels. I constantly find my mind wandering and once I
notice, my erection starts going soft. It takes a
strong, conscious effort to keep your erection strong.
Masturbate Less: Let those hormones build up!
It'll help keep you more aroused and in the zone. The
only problem I've found with this is if I wait too many
days without any type of release, I turn into a mix of a
premature ejaculator while suffering from erectile
dysfunction. When I am erect and fully concentrating, I
feel like busting early, but when I'm going soft, I
don't feel anything.
Relaxing, concentrating, and
masturbating less are a few things you can do to help if
you're losing your erection during intercourse.
