The Ideal Penis Size
Obviously, penises come in all kind of combinations of length versus girth. This leads us to the final and most important point: where do you fit on the scale of women's preference? What does she think about your penis?
For the vast majority of women a man's penis will fall in one of the following categories (applying the previous definitions of small, big etc. for length and girth):
very satisfying but not ideal
= too small in length and girth, or too big in length and girth or any odd combination of small and big
Penis Size Preference Chart (updated!)
The Penis Size preference Chart is a graph showing virtually all the possible combinations of penis length and penis girth in ¼ inch intervals. For each combination it lists the matching grade of women's preference (A to E), stating its ability to satisfy the average woman.
To use the chart just locate your penis length and circumference (girth) along the axis. Where both meet you will find your penis grade.
You can also view this chart in its metric version (using centimeters).
The penis size chart has been updated to incorporate the opinions of the enormous amount of women that have sent comments to this site and to me personally.
Examples (extrapolated from the above chart)
At 5½ inches long by 7 inches around you will be enjoyable (too short but very thick) = D.
At 8 inches long by 5 inches around you are again enjoyable but not satisfying (big in length but on the small side for girth) = D.
At 7½ inches long by 6 inches around you are very satisfying but not ideal (big in length but just over average in girth) = B.
At 6 long by 5½ around you are on the borderline of being enjoyable and satisfying. Many girls might not be satisfied. It is a borderline C.
At 5 inches long by 4½ around you are classified E: not satisfying
At 11½ inches long by 9 around you will get an E from most women for being simply oversized!
Note: Let it be clear that the majority of men will fall in the lower-left D and C brackets. Grade-A penises are probably occurring in less than 10% of men.
Never lose out of sight that having an ideal penis alone is not what most women will look for. The vast majority will prefer a nice decent looking man with a grade B or C penis (and some cash!) above a bum with a grade A penis.
But let's say someone has a borderline C graded penis as in the example above. Chances are the average girl is ok with this. She might even tell him that his penis is perfect. After all, there are many men with smaller penises than that, in length as well as in girth. But if she could choose between him and an exact clone of his (same character etc.) except with a grade B penis as in the above example, who do you really think she will choose? Deep in her heart, no normal girl will choose for the smaller guy. More about this later on.
Ugly Penis - Pretty Penis: What about penis "looks"?
The degrees in the above chart rate only the size aspect of a penis. Another rating could be established for the pure esthetical aspect, making things more complicated. A penis can be rated A for size but can be very ugly to look at for a woman. Or it can get a C for size and very pretty for the girl.
Women say the looks are determined by the looks of the whole package:
the proportions, i.e. the size of the testicles versus the penis
the way it hangs when flaccid and stands when erect
the curve of the penis
the penis shape
the color, texture and evenness of the skin
the penis' muscularity (veins)
the way the testicles are attached to the penis
the way the whole thing is attached to your body
Seriously overweight guys tend to get automatically less points in this department. Uncircumcised penises are usually considered less attractive, especially when the foreskin extends past the end of the penis. In addition, many women claim that long thick pubic hair makes a penis less attractive and say that guys should trim it a bit. As a man it is hard to see how trimming could make a difference to the charisma of your genitals. Rather than trying to understand why, just consider that most men also prefer their woman nicely trimmed or even completely shaven around the vagina, so that probably explains their point of view.85 Penis Size "Facts"
After all this, you must be more than ready for the penis size "facts". Note: When it says "men" or "women" then that is what it says, otherwise it would say "all men" or "all women". So think about this before making a comment. There are exceptions to everything in life… Enjoy!
85 Penis Size "Facts
- If you are a woman and you don't prefer bigger than average penises, then you are... an exception.
- Women prefer bigger penises more than men prefer bigger breasts.
- The average penis measures 6 to 7 inch long and 5 to 5 ½ inch in circumference (about 1 ¾ inch wide).
- When you think you have a small penis, you are generally right.
- Shorter and thinner than average flaccid penises are averagely shorter and thinner when erect than average erect penises. (Does that make any sense?)
- Penis size is not just a locker room issue.
- Women care about the size of flaccid penises.
- Women love touching and looking at big flaccid penises.
- Women love touching and looking at big erect penises.
- Women love giving oral sex to big penises, if they are able to of course.
- Big penises cause more vaginal pleasure for women.
- What about this: Twenty percent of all women stay with a man for his big penis...
- forty percent stay with a man for his money...
- forty percent stay with a man because of who he is...
- ...eighty percent would like their partner to have a bigger penis!
- ...eighty percent of women don't orgasm from intercourse alone!
- ...eighty percent of men have an average or small penis!
- If your penis slips out often during intercourse, you probably have a small penis.
- Women find small penises frustrating.
- Women find small penises annoying.
- Women find small penises boring.
- Women find small penises embarrassing.
- Women look for bulge when meeting men.
- Women look up to men with big penises.
- Women find big penises impressive.
- Women consider men with big penises more masculine.
- Men with big penises are more self secure.
- Women prefer men who are self secure.
- Most women consider men with a big penis a sex object.
- Most men don't mind to be considered a sex object by women.
- Women pretend they want a sensual and sensitive man no matter his size.
- Women know they want a macho and masculine man with big penis size.
- Women want to sleep at least once in their life with a man with a very big penis.
- Men with bigger penises date more women than men with smaller penises.
- Men with a big penis have more chance to have sex with two or more women at the same time.
- Women brag to other women if their partner has a big penis.
- Women have more patience when it comes to well hung guys.
- Men with a big penis get dumped less by their girlfriend than men with a small penis.
- Most women are sexually very active with different partners between the age of 17 and 21.
- Most women have had many more sexual partners than they are telling you.
- Consequently, the probability that a man's new date has seen a bigger penis than his is very high.
- If a woman doesn't make a comment about a man's penis it means she is not impressed, …or worse.
- Women make favorable comments when they discover their new mate has a big penis.
- If you haven't heard any great comments about your penis size when having sex the first time with a woman, you don't have a big penis.
- If you have never heard a complaint about your penis being too small, it might be because the complaint was muted while pronounced.
- Asking a woman if she thinks your penis is big is useless.
- If a woman tells you your penis is nice, it means usually it is rather small.
- If a woman tells you your penis is big, it means usually it is plain average.
- If a woman tells you your penis is so huuuuge, it usually means it is just big.
- If a woman lowers your pants, utters a shriek, takes off her clothes and hugs your penis, it usually means you are too big.
- However, if a woman lowers your pants, utters a shriek, puts her clothes back on and leaves, it usually means you are too small.
- Women don't tell you that you are average. They will tell you that you are big, the rest is small and very few are humongous.
- If your girlfriend's previous lover was above average thick, she will not feel you inside if you are below average thick.
- If your girlfriend's previous lover was way above average thick, she will not feel you inside if you are average thick.
- Most vaginas prefer thick penises.
- Most penises prefer tight vaginas.
- If your woman purposely squeezes her vagina very tight during intercourse, she wants to make you feel big.
- Women have to strain themselves to get off on a thinner than average penis.
- Men with a short penis have to work harder to give pleasure to a woman.
- Men with a long penis have to work less hard during intercourse.
- Men with a long penis have more fun during intercourse.
- Men with a long penis cause more fun during intercourse.
- Men with a long and thick penis cause the most fun during intercourse.
- Women consider a penis between 7 and 8 inch in length and between 6 and 6 1/2 inch girth ideal.
- Women whose partner is smaller than average, wish sometimes he would wear a big strap-on.
- A big strap-on causes less pleasure than a real penis of the same size.
- Women whose partner is larger than average never think of him wearing a strap-on.
- Men with small penises masturbate more often.
- Over-masturbating causes your penis to shrink by eventually depleting your sexual energy.
- Men with small penises are getting masturbated more often than getting laid.
Not using your penis by getting laid might cause it to shrink as well.
If a woman publicly says that size doesn't matter, it is often because she is with a small penis guy.
Women who believe size is a non-issue tend to be more spiritual than sexual.
Women who believe size is a non-issue tend to be more insecure and are looking for long-term relations.
Women who believe size is a non-issue care less about sex to begin with.
Women who believe size is a non-issue usually want flowers, candies and long walks under the moonlight instead of wild sex.
Women who believe size is a non-issue only want to make love.
Normal women want to make love on some days and have sex on the other ones.
Making love is spiritual..., having sex is physical attraction, size and technique.
Technique as smaller endowed men.
If a smaller endowed man has great technique, it might be because he doesn't have much choice.
Most women who always prefer receiving oral sex to penetration, do so because of either mental or physical causes.
In general, women prefer vaginal penetration above oral stimulation.
The main reason some women feel pain from penetration by a large penis is that the guy rushes without waiting for the vagina to be expanded.
Other reasons a woman can feel pain from penetration by a large penis is that she is not relaxed enough or that the guy has bad technique.
Awareness of penis girth
All ten objects are inserted a neutral six inches deep, one after the other, in random order.
Upon insertion of each object, the woman is asked:
to compare its girth to the previously inserted object (is it thicker or thinner)
to estimate its circumference. To indicate the circumference she will refer to a cone shaped object by holding it on the corresponding circumference between thumb and index finger.
Notate her response and compare it to the actual girth of the inserted object.
Awareness of penis length
Use only object E (which has a medium circumference of 5.5 inch).
Set the adjuster at maximum length (12 inches). Insert the object at different lengths.
Upon each penetration the woman is asked:
to compare its length to the previous penetration (is it longer or shorter)
to estimate the inserted length. To indicate this length she will use her hands by holding them apart at the corresponding distance.
Notate her response. Measure and notate the distance she indicates with her hands. Compare it to the actual penetration depth of the inserted object.
Vaginal sexual response due to penis width
Choose three objects with different girths.
For each object set the adjuster at six inches penetration depth. Use objects in random order.
Each object is inserted and then moved in an identical ("neutral") back and forth motion to stimulate the vagina.
Notate the woman's reactions and eventual comments. Notate the elapsed time at point of orgasm.
Vaginal sexual response due to penis length
Choose the object with her preferred girth.
Set the adjuster at four inches penetration depth.
The object is inserted and then moved in an identical ("neutral") back and forth motion to stimulate the vagina. During each forward motion the object is completely inserted as far as the adjuster allows.
Notate the woman's reactions and eventual comments. Notate the elapsed time at point of orgasm.
Repeat this procedure several times with the adjuster set at different penetration depths.
Ideally such tests to study the vaginal sexual response of women should be done with the use of strategically placed devices (electrodes) that register the activity of the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles and uterine muscles. The problem however is that such devices wouldn't stay in place during the test because of the thrusting motion.
The procedures laid out above are not definitive and can probably be improved. If you have any suggestions or comments about this test (or about any other penis size related things), use this page.